Today is our last day with D.
Later this evening we're dropping him off at the hotel where he'll stay the night. Tomorrow he'll spend all day at M.EP.S just sitting around. Tuesday he flies out to N.J.
Surprisingly- I'm o.k.
I had one freak out on Wednesday night but since then I've been fine.
I'm thinking the hardest part for me will be the anticipation of a call or text, even though he can't do either. Plus, I'll be super bored.
For now, we're soaking up the last bit of time we have together. We've been having a great time at D's aunt and uncle's house, eating tons of food, relaxing, playing games and sleeping in. Bogey is loving their large backyard...even waking up at 3:30am this morning whining to go outside to play.
No camera cord with me so pictures to come...
Sunday, July 5
Wednesday, July 1
BM
When D and I went to Monterrey to celebrate our anniversary, I mentioned that we stumbled upon the CG station. Literally... stumbled upon it while waiting at a stop light. I also mentioned that we had a great opportunity to stay on base for almost 4 hours just getting our questions answered, advice, etc.
Well- let me really back up here... and apologies if this is repetitive. In some branches of service your job is chosen for you based upon a test that you take in your enlistment process. So you would know what your job is before you got to training. CG is not like that. You take the same test but are able to pursue any avenue you'd like within the CG, granted that your test score in that area qualifies. (So the better you do in all of the areas on the test the more you're eligible for)
There are three basic categories: airmen, seamen, and firemen. Within those are a ton of specific jobs to chose from. (Ie: res.cueswimming falls under the airmen program, law enforcement falls under seamen, etc)
Since D has a degree in crim.inology it's only natural to think that he'd want to pursue that route. During the past year rumors circulated that a new rate* was coming out- Mar.itime En.forcement... aka... cop on a boat. I naturally thought that D would gravitate towards that rate but figured he'd also look into some other options as well. Another contender was res.cueswimming. Personally, I had a feeling that he was only interested in this rate because he just wanted to jump out of a helicopter repeatedly.
Turns out I was right.
Fast forward to our weekend at Monterrey.
The CG guys talked about the pros and cons of each rating, without getting their own biases in the way. (Somewhat) A rate was mentioned that we had heard of but-apparently-didn't know anything about: Boats.wainmate**. (or BM) After talking about it I had a strong feeling that this was right up D's alley but I kept it to myself as I didn't want to pressure him into something he wasn't feeling. But, as we got in the car, D bubbled with excitement that he felt that BM was the way to go.
We did a ton of research on the rate when we got back home. D found out that once he was officially a BM that he could qualify for some certifications:
-Co.xswain: have the authority to direct the crew/activities and modify the mission they're on.
-Tac.tical co.xswain: the training to be able to maneuver a boat in a defensive situation
-Sur.fman: normally you get he.avy weather certified to drive the boat in waves up to certain size. Sur.fmans have the training to drive the boat in the highest waves. It's also the highest qualification for small boat operations.
After D finishes basic we'll be moved to our first station. For the next four months he'll be required to just work to experience different aspects of the CG life. This will give him hands on experience to "try on" different jobs before he commits to one. After the four months is up he can place his name on an @-School list to get specific training for that rate. @-Schools are all throughout the US and each are different in length. Sometimes spouses/ families are able to go with the coastie and sometimes you're not. (Depends on how long the school is, basically) Right now, the wait time for BM @-School is 2 years.
By the time D is able to put his name on the list the wait will most likely be longer. So- D is planning to "str.ike." Instead, he'll complete the required four month wait and training under another BM at his station to meet the necessary qualifications/ certifications/ tests while the other BM supervises. Basically- it's hands-on, on-site training with set guidelines he has to meet or else he doesn't pass. The "st.riking" process takes between 4-6 months to complete. Much faster than waiting around for an @-School that's only 12 weeks long!
That's the plan thus far...
*Rate= specific job.... same thing basically
**Boats.wainmate is pronounced: boats-in-mate
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Tonight is D's last night home for a long time. We're going to dinner with my parents and then his parents will be arriving late tonight.
The last couple of days have been strange to me. It's almost as if I'm going through a grieving process: sad, anxious, perfectly fine, etc. and then BOOM... I'm mad. Not mad at D or anything in particular... just mad. D lets me sit (literally) in my anger and then talks me back to normal. I haven't cried yet but have teared up in front of him a few times. (Which then makes me mad) So it's been interesting around here.
Today- I'm more inclined to be grouchy about the heat, a newly developed cold, a semi-active Ping and extreme tiredness.
I'm glad that the week is over for me and look forward to spending time with D's family.
Well- let me really back up here... and apologies if this is repetitive. In some branches of service your job is chosen for you based upon a test that you take in your enlistment process. So you would know what your job is before you got to training. CG is not like that. You take the same test but are able to pursue any avenue you'd like within the CG, granted that your test score in that area qualifies. (So the better you do in all of the areas on the test the more you're eligible for)
There are three basic categories: airmen, seamen, and firemen. Within those are a ton of specific jobs to chose from. (Ie: res.cueswimming falls under the airmen program, law enforcement falls under seamen, etc)
Since D has a degree in crim.inology it's only natural to think that he'd want to pursue that route. During the past year rumors circulated that a new rate* was coming out- Mar.itime En.forcement... aka... cop on a boat. I naturally thought that D would gravitate towards that rate but figured he'd also look into some other options as well. Another contender was res.cueswimming. Personally, I had a feeling that he was only interested in this rate because he just wanted to jump out of a helicopter repeatedly.
Turns out I was right.
Fast forward to our weekend at Monterrey.
The CG guys talked about the pros and cons of each rating, without getting their own biases in the way. (Somewhat) A rate was mentioned that we had heard of but-apparently-didn't know anything about: Boats.wainmate**. (or BM) After talking about it I had a strong feeling that this was right up D's alley but I kept it to myself as I didn't want to pressure him into something he wasn't feeling. But, as we got in the car, D bubbled with excitement that he felt that BM was the way to go.
We did a ton of research on the rate when we got back home. D found out that once he was officially a BM that he could qualify for some certifications:
-Co.xswain: have the authority to direct the crew/activities and modify the mission they're on.
-Tac.tical co.xswain: the training to be able to maneuver a boat in a defensive situation
-Sur.fman: normally you get he.avy weather certified to drive the boat in waves up to certain size. Sur.fmans have the training to drive the boat in the highest waves. It's also the highest qualification for small boat operations.
After D finishes basic we'll be moved to our first station. For the next four months he'll be required to just work to experience different aspects of the CG life. This will give him hands on experience to "try on" different jobs before he commits to one. After the four months is up he can place his name on an @-School list to get specific training for that rate. @-Schools are all throughout the US and each are different in length. Sometimes spouses/ families are able to go with the coastie and sometimes you're not. (Depends on how long the school is, basically) Right now, the wait time for BM @-School is 2 years.
By the time D is able to put his name on the list the wait will most likely be longer. So- D is planning to "str.ike." Instead, he'll complete the required four month wait and training under another BM at his station to meet the necessary qualifications/ certifications/ tests while the other BM supervises. Basically- it's hands-on, on-site training with set guidelines he has to meet or else he doesn't pass. The "st.riking" process takes between 4-6 months to complete. Much faster than waiting around for an @-School that's only 12 weeks long!
That's the plan thus far...
*Rate= specific job.... same thing basically
**Boats.wainmate is pronounced: boats-in-mate
--
Tonight is D's last night home for a long time. We're going to dinner with my parents and then his parents will be arriving late tonight.
The last couple of days have been strange to me. It's almost as if I'm going through a grieving process: sad, anxious, perfectly fine, etc. and then BOOM... I'm mad. Not mad at D or anything in particular... just mad. D lets me sit (literally) in my anger and then talks me back to normal. I haven't cried yet but have teared up in front of him a few times. (Which then makes me mad) So it's been interesting around here.
Today- I'm more inclined to be grouchy about the heat, a newly developed cold, a semi-active Ping and extreme tiredness.
I'm glad that the week is over for me and look forward to spending time with D's family.
Monday, June 29
Icecream With A Side of Lilli-Vanilli
I drove the sass to see her daddy, Monga and Lilli-vanilli a couple weekends ago. We spent the day wandering around the state capitol's old town area, eating bad pizza and enjoying icecream. We had a great visit, but watching the girls eat a cone full of icecream was the highlight. Not one of us got out without sticky clothes and use of a LOT of baby wipes.
Lilli-vanilli has always been my favorite to photograph as she moves 100 times slower than her sassy sister.
Sass will be 6 (!) later this year and Lilli-vanilli will be turning 3 (!)
Lilli-vanilli has always been my favorite to photograph as she moves 100 times slower than her sassy sister.
Sass will be 6 (!) later this year and Lilli-vanilli will be turning 3 (!)
I, however, will always be squinty-eyed in pictures. (Sigh)
Thursday, June 25
Can't Think of A Title
Yesterday, my job found a replacement for me. I'm so excited that I'll have plenty of time to train her while we both reap the benefits of payment.
I found myself teary-eyed a few times at work. It just sort of solidified the fact that my departure is more final and real. Also didn't help when I had to send an e-mail out to my whole staff announcing my leave. That was one of the hardest things I had to write.
D, however, is on a roll.
Tomorrow is his last day of work. I'm thinking about surprising him with something to commemorate this special event.
As of this morning, he's 3lbs away from losing a total of 20lbs since February. He's such a hard worker and has so much will power that I just don't have.
10 days and counting... well it's really 12 days but I'm counting from the last time I'll see him before he leaves. It's going by so fast and I know that next week will zoom by. July will soon be here and gone as the first three weekends hold some exciting events for me.
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D took my camera out of my purse and left it in my mom's car so I had to take some b-day pictures of him with my phone. We had fun catching up with his cousins and their 5 bazillion kids. D enjoyed him some strawberry pizza while I'll dug in to the S.piderman cupcakes. D shares his birthday with his 4th(?) cousin(?), Chad, who turned 4 that day.
D waiting to blow out his candles.
(Chad is the blonde head on the lower right)
Showing off his new windshield-courtesy of me- to his cousin.
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...Coming soon (I sincerely promise this time)-
- BM
- Lilli update
Tuesday, June 23
23-23
Today is the 23rd.
D turned 23 at 3:49am this morning.
23 on 23!
He woke up to some flowers and was treated to three Od.walla drinks.
Yesterday kicked off a pre-celebration with some tennis playing and a three mile family run. (Which I biked) Tonight's celebration involves a park, cousins, strawberry pizza and gifts. The post-celebration involves treating D to a movie.
Even though D really knows that I keep a family blog he claims that I've never told him. So- even though he won't see this I still want to wish him a big HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Monday, June 8
When Did She Get Permission to Grow?
Yesterday she was born.
On Friday she graduated pre-k.
We celebrated her success at "the-crazy-ice-cream-toppings-place" per her request with her two grandmas, grandpa, papa, baby brother, and her favorite aunt and uncle. (Us)
** Isn't it creepy that she looks EXACTLY like me when I was five? Good Lord...
Friday, May 29
Detour
D sent me this picture via text message this morning.
D: "I ran into this on my bike just now. I didn't see it. It hurt real bad!"
No worries... he's okay.
Silly boy.
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